Each of us is different. Some people sometimes need to listen to confessions, others get love and a sense of security, others feel that a person expresses love not in words, but in his actions.
It\’s a problem when a couple gets together where she needs words and he wants to act rather than speak. Eternal question: “Do you love me?””He starts to irritate the guy so much that he runs away. It does not matter if his heart breaks.
Pairs must be played together.
They both want the same thing.
I always had a friend dressed around her partner, he was anxious to get up an hour early in the morning, and still hear those 2 words, so that he would not see her without makeup, even while working in the garden at the cottage.
They got married, and not only did he stop loving her all the time, he suddenly looked at her for how she really looked. The marriage lasted 1 year. Because she did not understand that the words mined from him were not sincere. And she created the illusion of perfection on her own and got as one of the reasons to divorce the court.
I\’m one of those women who think it\’s more important to see what your loved one can do for us.
Of course, for this he must not only be praised, but also rewarded (I do not mean sex, for God, it is rewarded).
Imagine that you are a parent. Your child gets sick and you are the one who takes the paragraph at work. But your partner will come home from work and, without your prompt, will go to take care of the offspring and tell you to rest.
He wakes up at night, even though he is awake early in the morning.
You say it\’s his child. Yes, but not many men do it, on the contrary, they still swear that he will make them sick or sleep somewhere else because he is bothering them.
Do you go on vacation that doesn\’t suit you? Do you think he went there to get peace in the family? wrong!
He loves you and hopes to experience the holiday to your taste. Therefore, if you feel at least partial affection for him, as he does for you, then you should give him a rest according to his wishes, of course, go with him. As he did.
He is silent because you bought something unplanned, and now he is sitting and thinking, what will you eat for the next payday? No, he\’s not a geek, but he loves you so much that he doesn\’t want to blame you for the clothes you wear when you go out together
Are you an animal lover, you have some at home, and he just quietly suffers from their whims and smells? When you come up with the fact that you need to “urgently” buy another pet, and he will nod and still give you the money?
This is all love.
It does not matter that you have not yet heard the words of confession from him, because they may not be meant sincerely, but there is a sea of love in his actions.
Do not tell him that he also wants to assert himself, on the contrary, go to see him, so that he can see that you also love him. Does he sometimes say bad things? It\’s just a valve he used to drop the steam, but he didn\’t mean it. We are not without our own mistakes.